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February 22, 2012, 12:00 pm

Quote: Originally Posted by cltaylor31 I am in search of my half sister. My mother Suzanne Kaelin (maiden name) put her first child up for adoption immediatly after birth. I have recently became informed of this and I would love to meet my sister. All I really know is that she...

February 22, 2012, 11:58 am

join the yahoo group NY adoptees- they have people who will help you. Do you know if you were an agency or private adoption? Have you any documents from your adoptive parents. I am sorry to hear that you lost your adoptive mom- can you ask your dad for any of his remembrances? If your mom had a...

February 22, 2012, 9:25 am

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February 22, 2012, 9:22 am

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February 22, 2012, 8:58 am

In search of birth mother to son born March 1979 in Birmingham, AL Cooper Green Hospital. We have been able to acquire a copy of original birth certificate, it states birth mother's name was Miss Carolyn Denise Day of Mulga, AL and she was unmarried and 21 years old at time of birth. Name given...

February 22, 2012, 3:20 am

As an adopted person; I feel it's sometimes necessary to set boundaries for your own sanity but I agree that closing the door twice is extremely harsh. It's not easy to navigate these waters. I think that in some cases a dialogue could provoke better understanding. If you put all of your...

February 21, 2012, 10:53 pm

I'm glad that you are able to have that kind of relationship with your aunt. Whatever the reason, you two at this point share a connection. I hope that continues and grows stronger. Your last post gave me more food for thought. I really don't know what the big deal is. Of course, I'm looking...

February 21, 2012, 10:05 pm

thanks! This was helpful...especially knowing how it worked for your specific situation Llise. Id love to hear how others hospital experience was for the them... I adapt easily to changes in the plan, so hopefully she will feel comfortable enough to voice her needs/wants.

February 21, 2012, 8:49 pm

You probably triggered some really deep emotional thoughts in her. Give her some time. There are some things that are just never comfortable for people to talk about. My first mom refuses contact with me at all because it is too painful. Unless we experience it, and I have, there is no way as...

February 21, 2012, 8:49 pm

I am sorry. Hopefully she will respond soon. if you had an agreement with her this is not far. Try to calm your heart and her silence does not mean that your baby is not on good hands. Adoptive parents also go to some emotional hard times and she may be wondering how to write for you, what to say,...

February 21, 2012, 8:15 pm

Hi all, What is the first thing that you would look for on adoptive parents profiles while making an adoption plan to your child? Religion, race, financial, appearance, letter, photos....or would you go by that "click" on your heart? Thanks and much love!

February 21, 2012, 7:44 pm

So many questions can be answered and relationships not damaged if you say and truly mean " I have some hard questions I would like to ask you, and I will still care about you and want to be with you no matter what the answers are". That is how I would start. Good luck.

February 21, 2012, 7:40 pm

I am going to answer your question as openly as I can. I definately hoped my daughter would contact me as an adult. I hoped she would tell me her life as an adopted child was great and hoped to give her information and form some type of family relationship. I never thought I would be in the mother...

February 21, 2012, 4:05 pm

He was born in Los Angeles County on October 7, 1954. The birth mother was about 16. Contact me if who you are searching for could be him. Thanks!